How can somebody enhance their creative writing when their real life feels numb and stagnant? Are there any real examples of good writers with no “social” skills?
Many writers ask themselves if they have anything to say. My favorite quote, attributed to novelist E.M Forster, is: “How can I know what I think until I see what I say?” There is an intimate relationship between thinking and words. Writing requires analysis and reflection. Making the conscious effort to express your thoughts can feel risky. Why would anyone be interested in your stories? Because someone somewhere (and sometimes many someone’s) will relate to those thoughts.
The more you write, the more you can discover your inner conversation. You may feel you have a boring life, but when you let your words flow, your attitude about the world and its people will seep through. At first, the story likely will be an illogical jumble. But as you keep refining, a clear picture will emerge.
Many writers cherish time alone, and that can make us seem like boring people. We all have those parts. However, our imaginations are busy inside gathering observations of our world. Boredom sometimes masks the fear of rejection and judgement. When you acknowledge those fears and then release them onto the page something magical can happen. You become more interesting than you ever thought you could be.
Keep writing.
